I admitted it was me and he yelled at me that it is not any of my business. He is extremely angry with me because no one else could have told her. A week later my brother comes to me mad because my friend broke up with him and in their argument made it clear she knew he was going to go through with marrying another girl and is just stringing her along. She was crying because she had already given her virginity to my brother. Maybe I shouldn’t have said anything but I did and told her my parents and my brother’s plan to have an arranged marriage. I have been friends with her for nearly a decade. My brother has my friend convinced he will marry her once they are done university. He will probably go back home to meet her this fall. My parents are already in talks with a family and my brother has been chatting with that girl online. My friend is half Indian and from her mom’s side is from another social class so my parents would never consider her. I know he will probably try to have her give up her virginity for him and I think it will break her heart to do that and then have him dump her. My friend likes my brother and he knows that and is now dating her. In my culture losing your virginity before marriage is still taboo for girls(guys can apparently do whatever they want). But in the mean time he is still dating other girls and making it seem like he is serious about them but then he will discard them later. My other brother is going to also have an arranged marriage and he says he is ok with that. I AM PLAYR mobile is a companion app to the smash web football game that lets you play the life of a professional footballer. He married an Indian girl that my parents arranged for. I’m the youngest of 3 siblings and my eldest brother is already married. We have started blocking anyone who tries to call us and give us shit for denying my parents their RIGHT to see my daughter.ĪITA for telling my friend my brother isn’t serious about her? They said that we are being stupid and that they are not going to do that. We agreed that we would resume visits, but not alone time, with them if they both got their noses pierced. I talked with my husband and we came up with a compromise. They started getting everyone including my grandmother to call me and say I was being ridiculous. I said that we were not going to change our minds. They said that my sister and I both had pierced ears when we were babies and that it did not harm us. I told them that we went back home and probably wouldn't be visiting for a while. I told them that my husband and I are upset with them for getting our baby's ears pierced without our permission. I asked them not to speak until I was done talking. We took a couple of days to think things over and cool down. I ignored all the calls and texts until we were back home in Phoenix.
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On the way home my parents were calling me to see when we were coming over. We checked out three days early and went home. I said that I would not be bringing her, or any other kids we might have, down here to see my parents. My husband said that my parents are not allowed to spend time alone with my daughter ever again. I got my daughter and I dragged my husband out of there before he lost his shit. When we went to pick up my daughter my mom showed us that we didn't need to wait because they had taken her to get her ears pierced. We left my daughter with my parents while we went to meet up with some friends. I told them that I would save them for her until she was old enough to get her ears pierced. My mom and dad got my daughter earrings for her birthday. Image Source/Digital Vision/Getty Images. I am an American citizen my mom and dad are not. If you had to be a fan of one of these teams, which would it be Golden State Warriors. When Bonobology and I found each other, it was a match made in heaven.My husband and I travel down to Mexico to visit with my family. I feel compelled to delve deeper and spread awareness to help others like me love more mindfully. As someone who has been in the eye of the storm of abusive, toxic relationships before discovering what love in its healthiest form feels like and navigating mental health issues like PTSD and GAD, learning to connect the dots between emotions, behavior patterns, adult relationships and childhood experiences has been a fascinating journey. During all this time spent romancing the written word in its various forms, I was also dealing with the train wreck that was my romantic life. Having spent five years in leading newsrooms in India and over a decade contributing to different digital platforms and print publications – The Tribune, BR International magazine, Sum Up, Make My Trip, Killer Features, The Money Times, and Home Review, to name a few – I've found that writing is my first and forever love.